While a dreamer
requires determination, purpose, resilience, tenacity, focus, faith, and hard
work to achieve his goals, an adviser to another’s dream require right
perception to be able to encourage other’s dream. Perception is the factor that
guides human reasoning in delivering comments in an issue. If you cannot key in
into the creative mind of a dreamer, you might not be able to give the right
advice to him when he ask for one.
Always let your
perception to people’s dream and aspirations be positive even when it contradicts
popular belief. Give simple honest accretion devoid of negative intentions. I find
that most times when you share your ideas with people, they will bring your
attention to negative aspect of your dream and dwell on it. Many of these
persons never weigh the merits of such dreams, plan and ideas. It is a wrong
attitude to life that many of us posses. I used to posses the same quality long
time ago.
If after sharing a
vision or idea with someone, the person start drawing your attention to reasons
why your plans will not work, I advice you seek advice elsewhere. That fellow
has not opened his mind to conceive in fullness your dream aspiration.
The next time someone
shares an idea with you, appreciate how much work the dreamer have done so far and
give credit him\her for trying. Many people criticize and condemn ideas that
they would never have conceived themselves let alone incubate. Appreciate that
young man\woman for trying before bringing his attention to the negative
aspects. Let your expression carry genuineness and sincerity of intents. Choose
your words wisely without making the other feel bad about sharing an idea with
you.
In a little way, we are
responsible for the happiness of people around us. We can make others feel
better about almost everything by making conscious effort to help. It starts
with perception.
To your success,
ADIO
ANTHONY O.
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